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5 Signs That You`re in Love
Some people say that being in love is equal to being ill: it begins suddenly, is severe, and often causes so-called complications.
Moreover, even a research published in the Journal of Neurophysiology shows that the same brain areas are involved in cocaine addiction and our reaction to the rejection in love, that proves the fact love can be considered as ‘abnormal’ and rather ‘dangerous’ human condition.
On the other hand, love is said to be the most beautiful feeling that creates and inspires, unites and invigorates.
But what’s true? How to identify love? How to find out if this is it? Is it OK to look forward to your partner’s special Happy Birthday more than to yours? Is it OK to think they’re special and be emotionally dependent on them? Is it love or addiction?
Let’s diagnose your state through the five ‘symptoms’ of this controversial and complicated emotional ‘disease’, listed below:
Sign №1: Finding a Pretext
As a rule, habits and behavior pattern of a lover change dramatically.
People in love tend to spend more and more time with their beloved, coming up with millions of pretexts for an unplanned meeting.
“I was just walking by and decided to get in”, or “I’m calling to ask Mike’s phone number” (despite Mike lives a stone’s throw away from my house), or “Oh! I didn’t expect to run into you here! Well… Let’s walk together, I’m going exactly to the same place!” …
The creativity of a person in love is endless, so if you notice yourself looking for a pretext for contact, you’re probably already in it!
Sign №2: Body Language
Psychologists and researchers believe that any emotion has its bodily expressions, and love, as one of the most powerful positive feelings, naturally has its non-verbal indicators.
It can be expressed by means of various unconscious gestures like touching person’s hands or hair, trying to hug or to interact in some other way.
However, these ‘casual’ touches give out a lover very fast.
Sign №3: Eyes
People knowingly say that eyes are the window to the soul – they’re pure and sincere, they never lie.
You can hide your smile and tears but you’ll never hide the love in your eyes. If they’re shining bright and sparkling, that’s it!
Sign №4: Behavior & Personality
Love does strange things with our personalities: some people get isolated, shy, clumsy, and distracted, while others behave more excited and impulsive than usually.
If you’re a naturally shy person but suddenly find yourself the life of a party, telling jokes, playing the guitar, and singing karaoke… Well, that’s should be a matter of concern. Any rapid changes in your behavior along with a couple of “symptoms” listed above are a true signal that you’re in love.
Sign №5: Sharing & Spreading Love
When you’re in love, you’re subconsciously spreading love all over the world and people notice it.
Remember, there’s no need to deny your feelings… On the contrary, love, like any other disease should be treated with a friendly and caring support.
Written by Nancy Cooper https://bestquoteslist.com/
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