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We get so much help and guidance when we’re young. All throughout childhood we’re told what we need to do and when, what’s right, what’s wrong and what’s expected of us. Suddenly we reach adulthood and have all of the freedom we crave and can suddenly feel a bit lost. There’s no one to hold our hand, no real ‘right or wrong’ answer just many varying shades of grey. We have to muddle through, figure it out and make it work ourselves. If you’re a young adult just starting out living an independent life or you have children reaching this age- here are a few things to consider.
Learn how to drive
Learning to drive gives you so much independence. You can go wherever you want, when you want without having to rely on lifts or be stuck with the limitations of public transport. If you’re in early adulthood and get to move out or make any big life changes then learning to drive is actually a great place to start. When you’re still living with parents you have more money for things like driving lessons, and you’ll be able to save for a car more quickly. As your insurance will be very expensive your first couple of years after passing your test, being in a situation where your outgoings are small means you’re able to physically afford a car. A used model will be essential when you’re first starting out, companies like Saxon Bridge have plenty of options. But do your research, find out which models are the lowest on tax and insurance by running quotes through price comparison sites before you buy.
Become financially independent
Being an adult involves being financially independent, and it can be really empowering knowing that you’re able to stand on your own two feet with money without help from anyone else. You might choose to go down the college and university route first which can open doors to better paid jobs after graduation. Or you might choose to do an apprenticeship and get a trade, or start from the bottom of the career ladder and work your way up without education. Either way, have a plan and goals of where you want to be. Your job is important, not only is it part of your identity but of course it allows you to earn money for the things you want and need.
Move out
While everyone’s timelines are different, it can be really helpful to have achieved the first two steps before moving out. If you already have a driving license, a car and a good job earning enough money then your own little home is the next logical step. Whether you choose to rent or buy, finding a place you love and are happy to spend the foreseeable future in is important. Decorate it in a way that feels like ‘you’ and enjoy dinner parties with friends, movie nights with your partner and family barbeques at the weekend to make the most of the space. Moving out requires you to cook and clean, do laundry, pay bills, run errands and generally learn what it means to be an adult.
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